So for the past 3 years that Steve and I have been dating, we've constantly been battling his crazy ex. She calls, sends cards, calls CHRISTMAS morning, calls on Steve's birthday etc. I have never said anything to her about it, because, I can't stop what she does, but I have talked to Steve about it.
It's not that I'm jealous or threatened by her, as I know Steve wants nothing to do with her, and I know she's really harmless. However, that being said, I just don't want to be annoyed by her anymore. I've tolerated her calls, her cards, whatever. I've dealt with it for 3 years. Steve was hoping she'd get the hint when he ignored her. I mean, really, what normal person continues to call and send cards if they've been ignored for 3 years? So finally, when she called the last time, I took it upon myself and sent her a message - simply asking her what it is she needed help with on her car (because that's why she calls, she needs help). So I sent her a one line question that was not mean or rude. She decided to write back and curse me out. Apparently I'm the one who needs to get a life and get a grip. I'm the one who is obsessive, I'm the one who needs help, even though she's the one who calls, sends stuff to OUR house etc. I have never, ever contacted her before this. So I flipped out. I called Steve and told him that he had to deal with this psycho person.
He called her and told her that enough is really enough. He told her that she had to stop sending stuff to the house, stop calling, stop asking him for anything. Well, that didn't go over too well with her, so she decided to once again leave me a message and curse me out again. She also thought it'd be fun to patronize me and say "so funny that when Steve called me, he wasn't even mad...hmmmm..." so now I hate her. Before I didn't want to deal with her. Now, she has a sworn enemy. So again, I turn to Steve, since she's really his old, nasty baggage, to have him deal with it again, because apparently, she didn't get the message the first time.
So he tells her this time "it's messed up that you contacted Lesley again, it's messed up that you made it seem like I wasn't mad, Lesley sent you a simple message, asking a simple question, and she wasn't trying to be mean, I told you it was done and over, so if anything else is said, there will be problems."
Let's see if it works this time. This bitch has the audacity to call me the psycho one, to call me the obsessed one. Mind you, I've never called her, sent her anything, sent her boyfriend anything, sent her trashy mom anything (yes, she sends cards to Steve's mom too), yet, I'm the crazy one? I'm the one who needs to get a life? She's the one who wastes her time day in a day out to contact Steve. She's the one who has a picture of them on her myspace page. She's the one who has a picture of OUR dog on her myspace page....yet I'm the one who needs help....I really don't get that one. I guess all of this just proves her immaturity, her craziness...I've always known there was something wrong with her...but until now, I didn't have any proof. She's clearly still in middle school with the name calling, the ridiculous myspace messages....she even wrote to Steve saying "I'm sick of this bullshit from Lesley" - WTF? I guess she lives in this la-la land where she thinks I give a shit about her. The only time I ever talk about her is when she's calling my boyfriend.
Steve and I know we're so much better than her...so let's see if she calls again.
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Yeah, it sucks about "the ex that just won't go away, who wants to get a little closer to your man". I hope she finds a life and leaves you two alone.
Seriously, if I'd known about J's ex being such a bitch and that J would still invite her around even though she and I don't get along, I would never have hooked up with J in the first place.
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